What often gets forgotten in a custody battle is the only thing that really matters- what is in the best interests of the children. Unfortunately, parent often get caught up in their ill-will toward each other and lose sight of what is most important.... the children.
In order to keep your focus on what is important, here is a list of what NOT to do when in the midst of a child custody case:
1. Don't bad mouth the other parent in court. The court is only concerned with what is in the best interests of the child! If the other parent text message you that you are a b-tch or an a--hole, the court does not care. Unless it is something that has to do with something that adversely affects the children, keep bite your tongue.
2. Don't post picture of you doing a beer bong, or partying with your friends on Facebook or MySpace. You are an adult and a parent.... ACT LIKE ONE!.
3. Don't call the police on the other party for no reason just to try to get leverage on the other party. If it's not justified, the court will see right through it and it could adversely affect your chances of getting what you are requesting.
4. In Court- do not argue with the other party. Speak only to the judge and be polite and professional.
5. Do not deny the other parent any visitation they may already be entitled to just because they are behind or not paying child support. That is not an acceptable reason to the court, and it will not help you in your child custody case.
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