5 Key Tips When You Go To Court

Believe it or not, most non-lawyers do not know how to properly present and conduct themselves in court. Below are 5 key points to follow when going to court. Although they may seem like common sense, most people do not follow some or any of these crucial tips. And remember, if you are going to court to fight for the custody of your child, or to increase your visitation, (modify parenting time) or lower or increase child support, every little thing can add up to make a big difference.

Follow these courtroom tips:

1. Arrive in court early- First impression is so important. If you show up to court late, and the judge has already called your case, what do you think the judge will think? The judge is likely to think that you don't care enough about your case to show up to court on time and that you don't have respect for the court's time. What a bad first impression. Avoid this mistake and show up to court early.
2. Dress professionally- You don't need to wear a suit (although you can), but dress professionally. Again, first impression with the judge is vital.
3. Be prepared- Bring all of the documents and evidence that you may need to court. And have it well organized so that you are shuffling through papers during court to find something that the judge may deem relevant. Also, bring 2 copies of everything to court- one for the judge and one for the other party.
4. Be polite and professional- Just as you don't want to be interrupted when you are talking, show everyone else the same courtesy. NEVER interrupt the judge when he/she is talking. Remember, the court is going to do what is in the best interests of the child. You want the court to know that you are worthy of the responsibilities you are requesting. And always address the court when you speak, and refer to the judge as "Your Honor."
5. If the Judge asks you a question, answer the question- This tip sounds obvious, doesn't it? Amazingly enough, when asked a question, people often give long, drawn out answers, yet never answer the questions asked. As I always advise clients, "If the judge asks you what time it is, don't tell him how to build a clock."

Follow these tips and you will be giving yourself a better chance of the judge granting your request. And always remember that the focus of any child custody hearing is what's in the best interests of the children. CLICK HERE for professional legal help from Child Custody experts.