Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Tennessee Code on Child Custody

The following is a relevant portion of the Tennessee Code pertaining to child custody. Highlights have been added for emphasis. Also, note that Tennessee will take into consideration the reasonable wishes of children ages 12 and older.

36-6-106. Child custody. —

(a) In a suit for annulment, divorce, separate maintenance, or in any other proceeding requiring the court to make a custody determination regarding a minor child, the determination shall be made on the basis of the best interest of the child. The court shall consider all relevant factors, including the following, where applicable:
(1) The love, affection and emotional ties existing between the parents or caregivers and the child;
(2) The disposition of the parents or caregivers to provide the child with food, clothing, medical care, education and other necessary care and the degree to which a parent or caregiver has been the primary caregiver;
(3) The importance of continuity in the child's life and the length of time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment; provided, that, where there is a finding, under subdivision (a)(8), of child abuse, as defined in § 39-15-401 or § 39-15-402, or child sexual abuse, as defined in § 37-1-602, by one (1) parent, and that a nonperpetrating parent or caregiver has relocated in order to flee the perpetrating parent, that the relocation shall not weigh against an award of custody;
(4) The stability of the family unit of the parents or caregivers;
(5) The mental and physical health of the parents or caregivers;
(6) The home, school and community record of the child;
(7) (A) The reasonable preference of the child, if twelve (12) years of age or older;
(B) The court may hear the preference of a younger child on request. The preferences of older children should normally be given greater weight than those of younger children;
(8) Evidence of physical or emotional abuse to the child, to the other parent or to any other person; provided, that, where there are allegations that one (1) parent has committed child abuse, as defined in § 39-15-401 or § 39-15-402, or child sexual abuse, as defined in § 37-1-602, against a family member, the court shall consider all evidence relevant to the physical and emotional safety of the child, and determine, by a clear preponderance of the evidence, whether such abuse has occurred. The court shall include in its decision a written finding of all evidence, and all findings of facts connected to the evidence. In addition, the court shall, where appropriate, refer any issues of abuse to the juvenile court for further proceedings;
(9) The character and behavior of any other person who resides in or frequents the home of a parent or caregiver and the person's interactions with the child; and
(10) Each parent or caregiver's past and potential for future performance of parenting responsibilities, including the willingness and ability of each of the parents and caregivers to facilitate and encourage a close and continuing parent-child relationship between the child and both of the child's parents, consistent with the best interest of the child.

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Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Mediation and Child Custody

What is “mediation” with regard to child custody?
When parents cannot agree on who will have “custody" of their children, the judge will send them to mediation. In some states, like California, it is mandatory that parties go to mediation before they have a hearing in front of a judge.

What if the parties cannot agree on custody?
The judge may ask a “mediator” to assist the parties with making a bustody agreement or parenting plan or to suggest one. A parenting plan states who the child lives with and who makes
important decisions for the child. It also can cover visitation and child support.


What is a “mediator”?
Mediators are neutral, third parties who try to facilitate a resolution for the parties. They help
parents make parenting plans that are good for the children. Mediators know how to work with separated couples, and they are trained to understand domestic situations. If you are worried about your safety or your children’s safety and welfare, you should tell the mediator. You are permitted to speak with the mediator alone.


What do mediators do?
The mediator will try to help you make a parenting plan that:
• protects you and your children
• states how you and the other parent will make decisions about the children
• states when the child will be with each parent


Mediators also can suggest safe ways to get the children to and from visits with the other parent.
Mediators can also tell you about getting help with housing, counseling and other family related issues.


A mediator is used to try to get the parties to come to a good resolution, without the need to have a hearing before the court. However, a mediator's recommendations are not binding. If an agreement cannot be reached, then the child custody issue will go before a judge, who can make a binding decision, called an "order."

Friday, January 9, 2009

California Family Code Regarding Child Custody

Ever wonder what the California Code states regarding child custody? Well, here you go. Below is a key section of the Family Code in California.

3020. (a) The Legislature finds and declares that it is the public policy of this state to assure that the health, safety, and welfare of children shall be the court's primary concern in determining the best interest of children when making any orders regarding the physical or legal custody or visitation of children. The Legislature further finds and declares that the perpetration of child abuse or domestic violence in a household where a child resides is detrimental to the child.

(b) The Legislature finds and declares that it is the public policy of this state to assure that children have frequent and continuing contact with both parents after the parents have separated or dissolved their marriage, or ended their relationship, and to encourage parents to share the rights and responsibilities of child rearing in order to effect this policy, except where the contactwould not be in the best interest of the child, as provided inSection 3011.

(c) Where the policies set forth in subdivisions (a) and (b) of this section are in conflict, any court's order regarding physical or legal custody or visitation shall be made in a manner that ensures the health, safety, and welfare of the child and the safety of all family members.

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