Acknowledgment of Paternity and Child Custody

Does the Acknowledgment of Paternity form give the mother or the father custody (parental responsibility) or visitation rights?

No. Custody issues (parental responsibilities and parenting time) are determined by a court order, separate from paternity. Visitation terms can be arranged informally between the mother and the father or set by the court.  Therefore, a father needs to understand that just because his name is on the birth certificate and/or an Acknowledgment of Paternity has been signed by both parents, he is subject to the control of the mother in terms of visitation unless and until he gets a custody/visitation order from a court. 

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Texas- When Can I Ask to Change My Child Support Order?

In Texas, a parent may ask for a modification of a child support order:

1. If it has been three or more years since the order was established or last modified and the monthly amount of the child support order differs by either 20 percent or $100 from the amount that would be awarded according to the Texas child support guidelines; or
2. A material and substantial change of circumstances has occurred since the child support order was last set.

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Court Preparation Checklist for Family Court

Below is a Court Preparation Checklist for Paternity, Custody & Child Support cases:
□ Make an outline, at least a few days before your
hearing, of all important information you want the
judge to know and bring it with you to court.
□ Know how to get to the courthouse.
□ Dress professionally.
□ Bring a copy of all of the papers that you filed and
whatever the other party served on you.
□ Leave for court in sufficient time to arrive early.
□ If the other party does not show up for court, ask the
judge for a “Default Judgment” (which is requesting
what you asked for).
□ Be polite and respectful:
o To the judge
o To the other party and their attorney, if they have
one.
□ Don’t interrupt when someone else is talking,
ESPECIALLY the Judge; Speak when it is your turn.
□ When it is your turn to talk, speak directly to the
judge, not to the other side.
□ Focus on “the best interests of the child.”
□ Always address the judge when speaking, and call
him/her “Your Honor.”
□ If the judge asks you a question, ANSWER the
question that was asked as briefly and to the point as
possible.

Appearing for Court by Telephone for your Family Law Case

Family law cases frequently involve parties that live in different counties or states, far from each other.  In those situations, one of the parties inevitably will have trouble appearing for court in person.  While one should always try to appear in person when possible, to personalize yourself to the judge, that is not always realistic.

In those situations, most jurisdictions allow for a "telephonic appearance", or appearing by telephone.  If you need to make such an appearance, be sure to prepare in advance.  Different courts have different procedures for making a request to appear by telephone for your family law case.  Whether its for paternity, child custody, child support or something else, you need to make sure you appear and your position is heard.  So preparation is the key.

The best course of action is to call the court clerk at the courthouse where your case is to be heard.  Let the clerk know that you live far away and ask what their procedure is to request to appear by phone.  Then follow exactly what they tell you, and do it as soon as possible.  Otherwise, you could waive your chance to appear by phone.

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Understanding Termination of Parental Rights

A common misunderstanding in family law is that a non-custodial parent can get his/her child support obligation terminated automatically by terminating their parental rights.  That is not necessarily true, and it's not that simple.

Termination of parental rights ends the legal relationship between the parent and child.  The parent no longer has a legal right to see the child or make any decisions for the child.  In addition, the child does not have inheritance rights that they might otherwise have from a biological or adoptive parent. 

Termination of parental rights varies from state to state.  Often there are two types of cases:  voluntary and involuntary termination.  A common ground for involuntary termination of parental rights is abandonment of the child. 

Service of Process for Child Custody and Child Support Cases

A key component in the legal process of getting child custody or child support cases resolved through the courts is getting the other parent and/or other party properly served with the necessary petition, motion or other legal documents.  However, sometimes the party wishing to take legal action cannot locate the other party.  Regardless, the other party still needs to be legally put on notice.

The most common form of service is having the other party served through the sheriff, civil process server or other form of personal service.  However, if the other party cannot be located, there is another option.  This method known as "service by publication."  It basically involves getting permission from the applicable court to place notice of your legal action in specified newspaper for a certain period of time, after which the other party is considered properly served and on notice. 

As such, if you have a child custody and/ or child support case that needs to be established or changed, and you can't locate the other parent and/or party, all hope is not lost. 

#1 Factor in Changing Child Support

What is the #1 factor in changing child support?  Simple... tacking action.  Sounds obvious, doesn't it?  However, you would be shocked to find out how many parents have a change in financial or custody circumstances, yet fail to take immediate action to modify the child support order.  Often, a father or mother paying child support will wait years before seeking help to get their existing child support order lowered or changed.  Moreover, in most circumstances, the court is not likely make any changes retroactive.  Consequently, a parent may be overpaying for child support, due to a job loss or other change in circumstances, and be out the money they were essentially overpaying if they had modified the child support order from the outset.